Human Dolorifuge

“Human Dolorifuge”

Article by: Tajwer Nasir

The concept of the “human race” refers to all human beings collectively, characterized by shared biological and genetic traits, as well as cultural and social practices. They exhibit considerable diversity in terms of ethnicity, culture, language, religion, and social structures.

Many societies have historically assigned specific roles and responsibilities to individuals based on their gender. These roles can influence family dynamics, career opportunities, and social expectations.

I believe that marriage is the most comfortable, justified and respected relationship between men and women. In the worldwide community of the human race, it’s a bond of expressing and sharing in adversity and prosperity of our lives. But unlike the other human relationships that exist within our society, we have the least amount of priority and flexibility for the most sensitive and most important relationship between our partners.

Most importantly, husband and wife can have the best relationship, if they have the level of affection and understanding of their relationship with each other. But sadly enough these are the blind people who have no knowledge about each other’s rights and duties in order to make their lives easier and better. They are the ones that are making each other’s life miserable and ignoring the fact that they were bonded together for tranquility and care. I feel so sorry and bad about the situation and the ignorance of the people who are literate and educated but not sensible enough for the understanding of what they are doing and what they should have been doing. It’s a shame that we have such a poor understanding of the purpose and nature of our relationship in the first place. I’m sure a lot of people are not aware of the rights and duties of their nuclear family’s members but they do know how to use the power of their so-called gender based men/women cards on each other.

Sometimes females as a mothers making their children’s lives more complicated by adding their own biases in different situations to the point of destruction, somewhere male identity as a father is not considered enough for the child’s psychological needs and desires which turns out to be the nightmare for the male child’s mental health and as a result the spouse of the disturbed male will always suffer from the consequences. The elderly siblings who have been abusing their younger siblings will often have their own problems with the family because of the lack of support, care and attention from the parent’s side. A man having trillions in the bank accounts is not likely to help the poor relatives financially. The little ones are not going to get any help from their parents because they are so desperate for their livelihood only. They were only pointing fingers at the teen’s locked door and they had no idea about the suffering behind the doors.

They rich parents are dysfunctional and they have no one to talk to them. The poor are getting murdered because they don’t have the money and resources to protect themselves from being killed by the police and politicians. The government is looting the lives of innocent civilians and foreigners are being obligated by them. The people serving as the public servants are living under the rule of thumb and the systems are completely free of responsibility. Even strangers who have no idea of the grinding situation of a person are making fun of someone for their appearance. The masculinity of men is only the most significant aspect that is mentioned here and there on every wall of the city. The baggers are full of coins and the white collars have no dime. The gold diggers have been in the market since the mid life crisis and the companies are not operating anymore. The scandal has shifted to the national level and the rest is being banished by media outlets. In addition to the massive, damaging and violent cold war in the last few decades of human civilization is a significant contributor to the global economic crisis and is the major threat to the fundamental rights of human beings.

But This isn’t the case in the society, where we are living and where we have been nurturing ourselves. Despite being raised in any religion or culture, We humans have lost ourselves and our roots in social structures. The culture and traditions that were once created and established by our ancestors in any religion, culture and in any part of the world were maintained to make the world more peaceful, respectful and sustainable.

Humans had been living on earth for centuries and the people of this planet were living happily in their own homes and in their own communities without being facilitated by the machines and technologies. But today, we humans are now seeing the worst possible scenario of the world being in danger and chaos.

The inhabitants of this world were initially struggling with their human survivalism and their diversification of their lives in order to make their lives better and more meaningful. The individual’s of the world had been living in the shadows of their homes and their families .Since The first humans started their lives on earth as “Adam & Eve” as according to the earliest known form of written and illustrated history of human life on the Earth.

The first relationship on the Earth was between Man and woman as their spouse and companions. They were both created for the purpose of tranquility and companionship of their lives in order to nurture the human race on the planet earth and to provide the necessary support and facilitation to human babies by the parenting of the couple who were spouses first and secondly the parents. The first human connection between a newborn human and the world is between a child and parents.

The root cause of these problems and difficulties are, we are so deeply concerned about the false notion of the narratives being created, used, spread, manipulated and exploited by our people, culture, customs, authorities, political parties, social institutions and even by the religious communities that we have become accustomed with the past practices that we are now in a state of imperialism which has become increasingly hostile and dangerous.

We have eyes but we can’t see “the beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder”.

We have ears but we can’t hear “ Those Unheard are the more beautiful than the heard ones”,

We have a nose but we are unable to smell the fragrance everywhere. “Love is a perfume you cannot pour onto others without getting a few drops on yourself.”

We have a tongue but we can’t speak “The Hidden truths that are being challenged by naked lies”.

And We have hands but we can’t touch because “More history is made by secret handshakes than by battles, bills and proclamations”.

We are putting our energy and efforts into baseless accusations against each other or simply ignoring reality and running after the other side of the aisle and trying to hide it. What is truly required? and what is the real purpose and role of the human realm in our lives. who have the most closer ties with each other rather than any other creature of the world.

But sadly, We are not making enough efforts to understand and support the humanitarian needs of our fellow human beings through the lens of our own narrowed perspective. Thus, We are truly doomed to be the worst of them. Instead

We should work for the betterment of the existing world in order to bring peace and harmony, Not just the sabotage and destruction of humanity.

The destruction of humanity is on the way towards the future generations to be totally disconnected and forgotten. To make them more like Robots and Zombies. That is already happening in the world and we are just going to be the ones shortly after the next generations. We have already gone too far from each other but we are not just realizing that. Our hearts, minds and souls are empty and Our homes, communities and world are full. We have been relying on virtual realities more than ever and we have already made our own social structure naive and hollow. Before we get too late in doing anything about it we should begin to ponder and start making efforts for the future.