Dear Abby: My wife won’t stop leaving chewed-up fingernails in our children’s playroom
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I don’t want a divorce because I know it would wreck the children’s lives. I have been holding out while politely begging for some of the cleanliness issues to resolve, but it’s had zero impact. I’m ready to lose my mind, and my hair is visibly thinning from the stress. It’s like having a third child. What do I do? — FRAZZLED IN FLORIDA
Contact your health insurance company and your doctor so your wife can be evaluated physically and neurologically. After that, you will have a better idea of what to do. While this could simply be the behavior of a disorganized and harried housewife, I’m concerned it could be more.
DEAR ABBY: I am a widow with two living children (one son died of COVID in 2021). My daughter wants me to go on a cruise with her next year. I don’t feel comfortable around crowds and strange people. This is due to losing my son and the lack of masking nowadays.
I told my daughter no on the cruise. It hurt her feelings, and now I’m the one feeling bad. Should I feel guilty because I worry about my health? I keep up with all my vaccinations, including flu, and I am healthy, but I no longer socialize as often as I used to. My doctor has told me that at my age it is important to always be careful. Your thoughts? — CAUTIOUS IN CALIFORNIA
DEAR CAUTIOUS: In light of the facts that you lost your son to COVID and that your doctor has warned you to be careful, your caution is understandable. I’m sorry you didn’t mention the size of the ship on which your daughter is planning to vacation, because some ships are so large that they could put you in close contact with thousands of other passengers.
Being up to date on your vaccinations is wise, but it doesn’t guarantee that you might not contract another communicable disease. Tell your daughter you would love to vacation with her under different circumstances, but your health must come first, and don’t feel guilty for doing so.
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